主觀的可愛

記得巧喜出生一兩週時，她爹有天忽然說：雖然巧喜不是標準的美人胚子，但是她的臉就是很可愛。我潑他冷水說：你知道為什麼嗎？因為她是你的孩子！路人經過看到不見得會覺得她可愛！

但是現在巧喜兩個月多了，越來越會笑，也好愛跟我聊天，小小的嘴笑的很甜，嗚嗚哇哇的發聲，冷靜如我，都忍不住覺得自己的孩子好可愛，好可愛，好～可～愛～～～

(收起白痴笑容、正色) 每個孩子都是父母心中最可愛的寶寶呀！

p.s. 今天巧喜翻身了！原本趴睡的她翻到正躺，小兔子的腿力真是不容忽視！

My sweet, spicy love

我必須要說，這種寧靜美好的時光不是每天都有 -- 通常她想睡時會開始捶胸頓足哭哭鬧鬧。但是當巧喜安靜的倚著我沈入夢鄉，擁著她小小的身軀，感受她呼吸時身體規律的伏動，幸福就在我上揚的嘴角，愛是暖流，一波一波拍打我的心房。Oh my sweet, spicy love.

摸下巴的對話

在Facebook上遇到好久不見的好朋友，以下是喜好探索心靈的單身美女與前任單身美女現任新手媽媽的對話：

好友: dear how are you and the baby?

我: we are fine. she is doing her job - crying and I'm doing my job - trying to figure out why she cries.

好友: right now?

我: since she was born...

好友: it is not easy for a baby to be born in the world. She knows she will have a lot of challenges in front of her in the future, so she cries a lots.

我心裡發噱偷笑... Nooo... she cries because she wants to eat! because her diaper is soiled or because she just wants me to hold her!

但是我只是淡淡的回：yeah

好友: I'll pray for you and her

我: thank you my dear

最後她給我開示：be centered, be grounded, and nothing to blame on.

啊！我親愛的好友，妳的談話還是一樣充滿哲理又不落俗套，讓我這俗媽上了一課，Namaste!